Zombie - it's probably not what you want to hear, but at your age it's pretty unrealistic to get a real love like that. You're depending too much on another like minded person, and at that age it's just not going to happen. You're probably just going to be patient until all of the douche bags that are your age grow up over the next few years.
On top of that, your attitude that you were talking about at the start of that post:
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'do what she feels like, no man can tame me; gal that i am, i like to flirt. fuck, who am i kidding, i thrive on affection.
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That's not exactly conducive to a story book teenage romance. Any guy with similar attitude aspirations for a true romance around your age would probably be scared off by that. You wondered at the end of your post why no one ever knows that's what you want. It's probably because you're not really letting people know that's what you want in your behaviours. This whole love thing sounds like a relatively new revelation for you. If so, then maybe this is your time to mature a bit too. Not that I'd say you're immature, but every young person has plenty of personal development left to do (that's why high school sweethearts are so uncommon - people change as they grow up).
I can sympathise with you for sure. I always felt a few years ago I was in the minority of teenagers who truly only wanted to find that one person. It might be arrogant to say that's true, but I also think the proof is in the pudding considering the musical chairs that tend to go on in high school with him dating her, her dating someone else, him dating her best friend. That's cool though. People need to find out what sort of person could be right for them some time in the future, or just to get their thing wet, but it was never really my scene.
You're never going to be alone in these feelings. I think it's pretty grouse that someone searched Google for 'vent your anger' and then came straight across your post. I think that shows how common this sort of angst is, especially with frustrated youths still trying to find their way in the world - and really, in reality you are still trying to figure out what you're all about. That also would make it hard for any other young guy to be totally sold on you, and that's not a knock on you. I'd be very surprised if you're still the exact same person in three or four years, but who you are now is more than likely the basis for who you'll become.
The only word of warning I will give to you though is that when you do first find someone that truly loves you DO NOT think that person is the be all and end all for you. I got burnt badly that way a little over two years ago and still haven't really recovered from it. I also know that I won't recover until I find someone else that truly loves me, however I'm already anticipating that I'll get hurt even worse because of how much I'm pining for that attachment - that even the most vague sort of interest from another girl will have me head over heels unnecessarily. Don't get too attached the first time you really find love - at least not for the first couple of years.
Also, to the unregistered poster. Jimmy is right. That dude is DEFINITELY gay.